If you're being treated wrong by a guy/girl, sorry to break it to you, but you have to let them go. You deserve respect as much as anyone else in the world does. It may be hard when you love that person, let's face it. You never get over your first love, but you have to move on. That person is not good for you and it's eating you inside everyday of your life and you can't keep it in anymore. LET THEM GO.
If you're heart is telling you one thing, but your mind is saying another, you need to take lots of time to realize what's most important to you.
Can you stand not having freedom?
Can you be happy with that person 100% of the time?
Do you doubt that person?
Does that person constantly want to make you do stuff you're not comfortable with?
This is a few questions I have recently had to ask myself. Yes I am currently going through this myself. It's hard. It's definitely a struggle. It tares me down to every last piece of me that I have to give. You kinda forget who you are. Like maybe you should change yourself for the person.
Truth is, you should NEVER change who you are for someone else. Seriously. This is ridiculous. I can't even believe that I would have thought that way. But it's true, especially when it comes to someone you love.
You fell in love with that person for who they are.
They fell in love with you for the things that you gave them.
It's finally time. Do what's best for you. You deserve it. I deserve it. We ALL deserve it.
This blog was inspired by a few followers recently, I felt since I was going through the same thing, it would be perfect for everyone to read and learn from.
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